突然发现站了好久 不知道要往哪走

还不想回家的我 再多人陪只会更寂寞

许多话题关于我 就连我也有听过

我的快乐要被认可 委屈却没有人诉说

夜半信仰丛白剥落 拿掉防卫剩下什么

为什么脆弱时候 想你更多

如果你也听说 有没有想过我

想普通交朋友 还是你依然会心疼我

好多好多的话想对你说 悬着一颗心没着落

要怎么附和 舍不得 又无可奈何

如果你也听说 会不会相信我

对流言会附和 还是你知道我还是我

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多 冷漠的人就你一个

想到你想起我 胸口依然温柔

许多话题关于我 就连我也有听过

我想我宁可都沉默 其实反而显得做作

夜半信仰丛白剥落 拿掉防卫剩下什么

为什么脆弱时候 想你更多

如果你也听说 有没有想过我

想普通交朋友 还是你依然会心疼我

好多好多的话想对你说 悬着一颗心没着落

要怎么附和 舍不得 要无可奈何

如果你也听说 会不会相信我

对流言会附和 还是你知道我还是我

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多 冷漠的人就你一个

想到你想起我 胸口依然温柔

如果你也听说 有没有想过我

想普通交朋友 还是你依然会心疼我

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多 冷漠的人就你一个

想到你想起我 胸口依然温柔

如果你想起我 你会想到什么

1.人跟人的差距咋就这么大呢！  

2.大哥，你要砸就砸我吧！  

3.这是病人与病人之间在探讨病情，你瞎掺和啥呀你！  

4.大哥，我真抽了！

       5.拐一年卖一年，缘分啊！吃一堑长一智，谢谢啊！横批是：自学成才！  

6.你这人怎么不按套路出牌？  

7.忽海无涯，回头是岸。  

8.小样我整不死你！ 

       9.一般人我不告诉他。  

10.忽悠，接着忽悠！  

11.苍天啊！大地啊！哪位天使大姐给我出的这口气啊！  

12.IC、IP、IQ卡，统统告诉我密码！

       13.等……等会儿……我……我要劫个色。  

14.你也不理我，我成狗不理了。  

15.啥也不说了，全在酒里边了。  

16.唉，就……就你觉得这个事儿有……有意思吗？

       17.弃勺从教。  

18.戴功立罪。  

19.这个人站的高度不同，看问题的角度就是不一样！  

20.愚昧，太愚昧，你老愚昧了！知道不？  

       21.智商是什么东西，给……给我拿来！  

22.婚姻是人的第二次投胎，你老舅我就没投好！  

23.一生就看一个女人是不科学的，容易看出病来。  

24.有钱男子汉，没钱汉子难啊！

       25.这孩子太有心眼了，赶……赶紧打个倒骑驴。这孩子哪能干这小本生意，人家得干大生意！  

26.好歹我也是个戴眼镜的，怎么能干这事呢？  

27.得不到女同志的青睐，得到了都是伤害。  

28.我吃胡萝卜素，这老有营养了！刚才我不是没看见苹果吗？  

       29.这活挺霸道的啊？  

30.论成败，人生豪迈，大……大不了……重头再……再来……  

31.要想生活过得去，不怕身上背点绿。横批：忍者神龟！  

32.是你爸大还是城市大啊？

       33.钱是王八蛋，没了再去赚！  

34.你们敬我一尺，我敬你们一丈，尊重他人人格，树立模范形象！  

35.高职不如高薪，高薪不如高寿，高寿不如高兴。  

36.上顿陪，下顿陪，终于陪出胃下垂…

       37.走自己的路，让前妻后悔去吧！  

38.咋地？我……我就是……开元市维……维多利亚娱乐……广场总经理的保镖！  

39.床前明月光，粒粒皆辛苦；举头望明月，更上一层楼。  

40.幸福就是：我饿了，看见别人手里拿个肉包子，他就比我幸福；我冷了，看见别人穿了一件厚棉袄，他就比我幸福；我想上茅房，就一个坑，你蹲那儿了，你就比我幸福。

某天，女孩终于鼓起勇气对男孩说：“我们分手吧。”  

　　男孩问：“为什么？”  

　　女孩说：“倦了，就不需要理由了”  

　　一个晚上，男孩只抽烟不说话，女孩的心也越来越凉。“连挽留都不会表达的情人能给我什么样的快乐？”  

　　过了许久，男孩终忍不住说：“怎么做你才能留下来？”  

　　女孩慢慢地说：  

　　“回答一个问题，如果你能答到我心里就答案，我就留下来。”  

　　“比如我非常喜欢悬崖上的一朵花，而你去摘的结果是百分之百的死亡，你会不会摘给我？”  

　　男孩想了想说：“明天早晨告诉你答案好吗？”  

　　女孩的心顿时灰了下来。  

　　早晨醒来，男孩已经不在，  

　　只有一张写满字的纸压在温热的牛奶杯下。  

　　第一行，就让女孩的心凉透了：  

    亲爱的，我不会去摘，但请容许我陈述不去摘的理由。你只会用电脑打字，却总把程序弄得一塌糊涂，然后对着键盘哭，我要留着手指给你整理程序；你出门总是忘记带钥匙，我要留着双脚跑回来给你开门；酷爱旅游的你，在自己的城市里都常常迷路，我要留着眼睛给你带路；每月（好朋友）光临时，你总是全身冰凉，还肚子疼，我要留着掌心温暖你的小腹；你不爱出门，我担心你会患上自闭症，我要留着嘴巴躯赶你的寂太好了，我要好好活着，等你老了，给你修剪指甲，帮你拔掉让你懊恼的白发，拉着你的手，在海边享受美好的阳光和柔软的沙滩，告诉你一朵朵花的颜色，像你青春的脸…所以，在我不能确定有人比我更爱你以前，我不想去摘那朵花……（女孩泪滴在纸上 形成晶莹的花朵） 抹净眼泪，女孩继续往下看：  

    亲爱的，如果你已经看完了，答案还让你满意的话，请你开门吧，我正站在门外，手里提着你最喜欢吃的鲜奶面包……  

　　女孩拉开门，看见他的脸紧张得像个孩子，只会把拧着面包的手在她眼前晃……        

雨霖铃 
作者：柳永
寒蝉凄切，对长亭晚，骤雨初歇。都门帐饮无绪，方留恋处，兰舟摧发。
执手相看泪眼，竟无语凝噎。念去去千里烟波，暮霭沈沈楚天阔。
多情自古伤离别，更那堪冷落清秋节。今宵酒醒何处，杨柳岸，晓风残月。
此去经年，应是良辰好景虚设。便纵有千种风情，更与何人说。

【只要彼此爱过一次】

汪国真

如果不曾相逢
也许　心绪永远不会沉重
如果真的失之交臂
恐怕一生也不得轻松

一个眼神
便足以让心海　掠过飓风
在贫瘠的土地上
更深地懂得风景

一次远行
便足以憔悴了一颗　羸弱的心
每望一眼秋水微澜
便恨不得　泪水盈盈

死怎能不　从容不迫
爱又怎能　无动于衷
只要彼此爱过一次
就是无憾的人生

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【我知道】

汪国真

欢乐是人生的驿站
痛苦是生命的航程
我知道
当你心绪沉重的时候
最好的礼物
是送你一片宁静的天空

你会迷惘
也会清醒
当夜幕低落的时候
你会感受到
有一双温暖的眼睛

我知道
当你拭干面颊上的泪水
你会灿然一笑
那时，我会轻轻对你说
走吧　你看
槐花正香　月色正明

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【默默的情怀】

汪国真

总有些这样的时候
正是为了爱
才悄悄躲开
躲开的是身影
躲不开的　却是那份
默默的情怀

月光下踯躅
睡梦里徘徊
感情上的事情
常常　说不明白

不是不想爱
不是不去爱
怕只怕
爱也是一种伤害

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【我不期望回报】

汪国真

给予你了
我便不期望回报
如果付出
就是为了　有一天索取
那么，我将变得多么渺小

如果，你是湖水
我乐意是堤岸环绕
如果，你是山岭
我乐意是装点你姿容的青草

人，不一定能使自己伟大
但一定可以
使自己崇高

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【我把小船划向月亮】

汪国真

请不要责怪
有时　会离群索居
要知道
孤独也需要勇气

别以为　有一面旗帜
在前方哗啦啦地招展
后面就一定会有我的步履
我不崇拜
我不理解的东西

我把小船划向月亮
就这样划呵
把追求和独立连在一起
把生命和自由连在一起

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【感谢】

汪国真

让我怎样感谢你
当我走向你的时候
我原想收获一缕春风
你却给了我整个春天

让我怎样感谢你
当我走向你的时候
我原想捧起一簇浪花
你却给了我整个海洋

让我怎样感谢你
当我走向你的时候
我原想撷取一枚红叶
你却给了我整个枫林

让我怎样感谢你
当我走向你的时候
我原想亲吻一朵雪花
你却给了我银色的世界

When asked about the ongoing uproar involving U.S. President Bill Clinton , most people say the affair involves a purely private matter . But many other people regard his actions as deplorable . I personally think the president committed impeachable offences .

当被问及对现在有关美国总统比尔·克林顿的沸沸扬扬的议论有什么看法时，大多数人认为这种暧昧关系纯属私事。但是，还有很多人认为他的行为应当受到谴责。我个人认为总统犯了这些过错，应该被指控。

2. When it comes to the increasing use of motor vehicles in Beijing , some people think that use should be limited . Others argue that the opposite is true . There is probably some truth to both arguments,but emission controls must be instituted regardless of the number of vehicles.

涉及北京机动车使用量增加这一问题，有的人认为应该限制使用。另一些人持相反意见。也许双方的观点都有一定道理，但是，无论车辆多少，必须对废气排放实行控制。

3. There is a general debate nowadays about the problem of itinerant workers . Those who object to the rising migrant population argue that increasing numbers lead to rising crime rates and harm social stability . They believe that strict limits should be placed on migrants entering China ' s cities . But people who favor the influx of the cheap labor force , on the other hand , maintain that migrants are needed to support the massive urban infrastructure construction program .

目前，针对流动工人的问题展开了普遍的争论。反对流动工人增加的人认为这会导致犯罪率升高，从而危害社会稳定。他们主张应该严格限制进入中国城市的流动工人。但是，另一方面，支持廉价劳动力流入的人主张，为了支持大规模的城市基础设施建设规划，流动人口是必需的。

4. It is widely acknowledged that extensive deforestation contributed to heavy summer flooding . Experts argue that China must introduce a massive afforestation program . But I doubt whether afforestation alone will solve the problem .

人们普遍认为过度砍伐造成了夏季特大洪水。专家认为中国必须推行大规模的植树造林计划。但我对仅仅植树造林就能解决问题表示怀疑。

5. Most people are of the opinion that wealth provides solutions to all problems . But in spite of the material benefits wealth provides , I believe one should abandon the pursuit of materialism and instead concentrate on the pursuit of happiness .

大多数人认为财富为所有问题提供解决的办法。但是，我认为，尽管财富提供物质上的利益，一个人应该放弃物质至上的追求，而是集中精力追求幸福。

6. Many people believe that capital punishment deters crime . But although criminologists have conducted exhaustive research regarding the subject , little evidence exists to support the claim .

很多人相信极刑能阻止犯罪。但是，虽然刑事学家就这一课题做了详尽的研究，几乎没有证据能支持这种说法。

7. An increasing number of people are joining the " Information Age " via the Internet . In reaction to the phenomenon , some say the Internet has removed barrters and provided people with immediate access to the world . But do they raelize that rapidly advancing information technology can also lead to intrusions of privacy ?

越来越多的人通过互联网进入了“信息时代”。针对这一现象，一些人认为互联网消除了障碍，为人们提供了与世界即时链接的途径。但是，他们有没有意识到迅速发展的信息技术也能导致侵犯隐私？

8. The use of guanxi is a widespread method for conducting business , but is it a wise one ? The method is now being challenged by more and more people .利用关系是做生意的普遍做法，但这种做法明智吗？现在，越来越多的人对这种方法提出了质疑。

9. These days we often hear about the widening gap between the rich and poor . Some argue the developed world has totally ignored the problem . But has it ? Close examination fails to bear out the argument .

最近，我们经常听到贫富差距扩大了的说法。一些人认为发达世界完全忽略了这个问题。事实是这样吗？细致的调查无法证实这一观点。

10. We ' re often told that the world is tethering on the brink of destruction . But is this really the case ?

我们经常被告知世界处于毁灭的边缘。但事实真是这样吗？

11. One of the pressing problema facing our nation ( China ) today is overcoming disparities in urban and rural income levels .

我们国家（中国）如今面临的紧迫问题之一是克服城乡收入水平之间的差距。

12. One of the most serious problems many people talk about centers on the lack of adequate housing space .

许多人谈论的一个最严重的问题集中在缺乏足够的居住空间。

13. Perhaps the most dangerous phenomenon gripping the nation today is official corruption , which is pervasive in all levels of government .

也许当今困扰国家的最危险的现象是遍布各级政府的官员腐败。

14. Inflation is yet another new and bitter truth we must learn to face .

通货膨胀又是一个我们必须学会面对的痛苦的新情况。

15. The rapid expansion of urban areas has in many cases encroached on valuable cultivatable land , and led to a general recognition that development must not be carried at the cost of agriculture . The government has attached greater importance to the problem and an increasing number of redundant projects are being terminated .

城区的迅速扩大在很多情况下侵占了宝贵的可耕地，使人们普遍认识到发展不能以牺牲农业为代价。政府更加重视这个问题，越来越多的不必要的工程被终止。

16. There is a growing worldwide awareness of the need for strengthened environmental protection .

世界上越来越多的人认识到加强环境保护的必要性。

17. There has been a dramatic increase in the spread of HIV/AIDS in recent years , with a new study projecting that the dreaded disease will affect over 30 million people worldwide by the year 2005 .

近年来，艾滋病蔓延的幅度进一步扩大，一项新的研究预测，到2005年，世界上有超过三千万人将感染这一可怕的疾病。

18. Working with the disabled cannot help but leave one impressed with their indefatigable desire .

与残疾人一起工作使一个人不得不对他们坚持不懈的渴望印象深刻。

19. Perhaps no issues are more controversial than euthanasia and abortion , both of which involve taking the life of a human being .

也许没有问题比安乐死和人工流产更有争议性，它们都涉及结束一个人的生命。

20. Never before in history has the issue of overpopulation been more evident than now .

历史上，人口过剩的问题从来没有比现在更加突出。

21. Perhaps it is time to reexamine the idea that college degrees are a guarantee of intelligence .

也许现在是应该重新考虑大学为是智力的保证这种想法的时候了。

22. A growing number of people are beginning to realize that wealth is not the sole prerequisite for happiness .

越来越多的人开始意识到财富不是幸福的惟一先决条件。

23. In spite of the extraordinary progress made in science and technology , problems remain in terms of guaranteeing that achievements benefit the greatest number of people .

尽管科学技术取得了非凡的进步，但是在保证进步成果使尽可能多的人受益这方面还存在一些问题。

24. A famous thinker once wrote that " the greatest threat to mankind is mankind itself ! " If this is indeed the case , then the current situation should make us ponder our futuer existence .

一位著名的思想家曾经写道：“对人类最大的威胁是人类自身！”如果事实确实如此，那么，现状应该促使我们对我们未来的生存进行思索了。

25. U.S. President Harry Truman once remarked : " The buck stops here ! " His view has been confirmed by numerous world leaders who have assumed full responsibility for their actions .

美国总统杜鲁门曾经说过：“责任止于此！”（意为勿再把责任往别处推，这是杜鲁门办公室桌上的座右铭）他的观点得到了很多对自己的行动承担完全责任的世界领袖的肯定。

26. Large families were once seen as a blessing . Today , however , things are changing and an increasing number of Chinese parents realize that fewer is better .

大家庭曾经被看做是一种福气。然而，今天，情况改变了，越来越多的中国家长意识到家庭成员越少越好。

27. People used to place total reliance on the government . The so-called " iron rice bowl " prevailed in the past , but things are quite different today .

过去，人们习惯完全依靠政府。以前盛行所谓的“铁饭碗”，但今天的情况有很大的不同。

28. Several years ago , Chinese streets were filled with people wearing identical drab clothing . Today , however , things are quite different and the streets are awash with people wearing fashionable bright colored outfits . Why has the change taken place ?

许多年前，中国大街上的人都穿一样的灰褐色衣服。然而，今天的情况大不一样了，街上满是一个个身穿色彩艳丽的时髦衣服的人。出现这种变化的原因是什么呢？

29. Years of observing human behavior has enabled me to conclude that the major difference between mediocrity and success lies solely with the individual concerned . Successful individuals consistently seek advancement , while their less industrious contemporaries are merely content with the status quo .

对人们行为的多年观察使我能够得出这样的结论：平庸和成功的主要区别仅仅在于相关的个人。成功的个人不断寻求进步，而他们比较懒惰的同时代人仅仅满足于现状。

30. Traditional way of thinking have changed dramatically . The pendulum has swung and people are exhibiting greater open-mindedness and a burning desire to detemine their own destiny .

传统的思维方式有了显著的变化。舆论发生了剧变，人们表现出更开放的思想以及决定他们自己命运的强烈愿望。

31. There has been undesirable trend in recent years towards the worship of money . A recent survey showed that X percent of respondents ranked getting rich as their top priority , compared to X percent only a few years ago . Why do people fail to realize that wealth does not necessarily bring happiness ?

近年来出现了对社会有害的拜金主义倾向。最近的一项调查表明，X%的调查对象把致富作为他们的首选，相比之下，就在几年前，只有X%的人这样想。为什么人们没能意识到财富不一定带来幸福呢？

32. Some months ago , a friend of mine was killed in a tragic automobile accident involving a drunk driver . The incident was far from rare , and was in fact typical of thousands of cases involving people dricing under the influence of alcohol .

几个月前，我的一个朋友死于一场与酒后驾车有关的悲惨车祸。这件事情一点儿也不罕见，事实上是数以千计的案件的典型，这些案件与在酒精作用下开车的人有关。

33. I recently read a newspaper article on the rampant spread of child abuse . The deplorable problem of the widespread abuse of innocent children has aroused public concern nationwide .

最近，我在报纸上读到一篇关于虐待儿童现象变得猖獗的文章。普遍虐待无辜儿童的问题令人深感遗憾，它已经引起了全国公众的关注。

34. Should parents spare the rod and spoil the child ? Opinions concerning strict parental discipline vary widely . Some view strict discipline as nothing more than a form of abuse , while others argue it is an essential factor for instilling appropriate social behavior .

家长应不应该闲了棍子、惯了孩子？针对严厉的家教的看法大相径庭。有的人就是把严厉的管教看成一种虐待，而另外的人认为这是逐渐灌输得体的社会行为的要素。

35. What do you think of the increasing openness accompanying the ongoing sexual revolution ? Do you ever fantasize ? Answers to these questions should be based on a determination between appropriate and inappropriate behavior .

你如何看待对现在的性革命越来越开放的态度？你曾经想像过吗？回答这些问题之前应先界定得体和不得体的行为。

36. Why do some governments persist in spending billions of dollars on space exploration when starvation and poverty continue to grip many countries throughout the world ? This particular question is being raised by an ever increasing number of people .

既然世界上许多国家仍被饥饿和贫困所困扰，为什么有的政府还坚持花费数十亿美元用于太空探索？现在越来越多的人提出这个问题。

37. Judging from the reams of evidence presented , we can safely conclude that the Three Gorges Project will change the lives of an untold number of people forever .

根据现有的大量证据，我们可以有把握地得出这样的结论：三峡工程将永远改变无数人的生活。

38. The ample evidence presented enables us to reasonably conclude that the scourge of AIDS will be brought under control in the foreseeable future .

提出的充分证据使我们能够合理地得出这样的结论：艾滋病的祸害在可预见的将来就能得到控制。

39. We must seek immediate solutions for problems leading to the rapid depletion of the earth's ozone layer . If allowed to proceed unchecked , the problem will undoubtedly exacerbate global warming and threaten life as we know it today .

我们必须寻求立即解决引起地球臭氧层快速损耗的问题的办法。如果任其自由发展，这一问题无疑会加剧全球升温，并且正如今天我们所知道的那样危及生命。

40. Quite obviously , immediate action is needed to extricate 80 million Chinese people from the grips of poverty in order to remove the danger of social unrest and ensure continuing stability .

很明显，需要立即采取行动使八千万中国人摆脱贫困，从而消除社会动荡的危险，确保持续的稳定。

41. China needs to reexamine the results of political and social modernization in order to ascertain the benefits and indeed the detrimental aspects from a new perspective . Otherwise , various perceived accomplishments might in fact prove to be far from beneficial .

中国需要重新检查政治和社会现代化带来的结果以便从新的角度明确它们的好处，甚至是有害的方面。否则，许多我们以为取得的成就实际上可能完全不会带来好处。

42. It is essential to heed warnings of potentially catastrophic consequences associated with the Year 2000 computer bug and , in turn , to attach top priority to finding effective solutions to ensure a smooth transition into the new century .

我们必须注意有关计算机千年虫可能带来的灾难性结果的警告，并且相应地优先考虑寻找有效的解决办法以确保顺利过渡到新世纪。

43. It is high time we put an end to the deplorable practice of infanticide.

我们早该杜绝杀婴这种应遭谴责的做法。

44. There is little doubt that immediate action is required to eliminate the scourge of corruption once and forever .

毫无疑问，必须立即采取行动彻底消除腐败的祸害。

45. In short , we must work diligently to make the world a better place for coming generations . We must not persist in pursuits harmful to the environment .

简而言之，我们必须勤奋工作，为了下一代把世界变成更美好的地方。我们不应该坚持对环境有害的追求。

46. We must avoid overindulgence and conspicuous consumption . We must instead continue to recognize the benefits of thrift in order to protect our newfound prosperity .

我们必须避免过分放纵和铺张浪费。相反，我们应该继续发扬节俭的优点以守护我们新获得的繁荣。

47. It is absolutely essential to reverse the irrational misuse of nonrenewable resources . For example , fuel-efficient motor vehicles must be developed to reduce oil consumption and alternative energy sources must be found to replace coal .

彻底改变对不可再生资源的非理性滥用是绝对有必要的。例如，必须开发节能的机动车减少汽油的消耗量，并且必须找到可替代能源取代煤。

48. While achieving success is easier said than done , persistence does in fact pay off . One of the most important traits of a successful person is self-confidence , another is desire , and still another is determination .

获得成功说起来比做起来容易，然而坚持不懈确实会有好结果。成功人士的最重要的特征之一是自信，第二是渴望，还有一个是决心。

49. Recognizing a problem is the first step in finding a solution .

认识到问题是找到解决办法的第一步。

50. Many of the explanations offered thus far are at least to a certain extent valid , but none fully address the problem and the issue must be examined in a wider context .

目前提供的许多解释至少在一定程度上是正确的，但是，没有一个解释能完全处理问题，这件事情必须放在更广阔的背景中考虑。

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02 Schooling and Education

It is commonly believed in the United States  that school  is where people go to get an education. Nevertheless, it has been  said  that today children interrupt their  education to go to school. The distinction between schooling and education implied by this remark is important. Education is much more open-ended and all-inclusive than schooling. Education knows no bounds. It can take place  anywhere, whether in the shower or in the job, whether in a kitchen or on a tractor. It includes both  the formal  learning that takes place in schools and the whole universe of informal learning. The agents of education can range from a revered grandparent to the people debating politics on the radio, from a child to a distinguished scientist.Whereas schooling has a certain predictability, education quite often produces surprises. A chance conversation with a stranger may lead a person to discover how little is known of other religions. People are engaged in education from infancy on. Education,  then,  is a very broad, inclusive term. It is a lifelong process, a process that starts long before the start of school, and one that should be an integral part of one's entire life.Schooling, on the other hand, is a specific, formalized process, whose general pattern varies little from one setting to the next.  Throughout a country, children arrive at school at approximately the same time, take assigned seats, are taught by an adult, use similar textbooks, do homework, take exams, and so on. The slices of reality that are to be learned, whether they are the alphabet or an understanding of the workings of government, have  usually been limited by the boundaries of the subject being taught. For example, high school students know that they are not likely to find out in their classes the truth about political problems in their communities or what the newest filmmakers are experimenting with. There are definite conditions surrounding the formalized process of schooling.

2.上学与受教育

在美国，人们通常认为上学是为了受教育。  而现在却有人认为孩子们上学打断了他们受教育的过程。这种观念中的上学与受教育之间的区别非常重要。与上学相比，教育更具开放性，内容更广泛。教育不受任何限制。它可以在任何场合下进行，在淋浴时，在工作时，在厨房里或拖拉机上。它既包括在学校所受的正规教育，也包括一切非正规教育。传授知识的人可以是德高望重的老者，可以是收音机里进行政治辩论的人们，可以是小孩子，也可以是知名的科学家。上学读书多少有点可预见性，而教育往往能带来意外的发现。与陌生人的一次随意谈话可能会使人认识到自己对其它宗教其实所知甚少。人们从幼时起就开始受教育。因此，教育是一个内涵很丰富的词，它自始至终伴随人的一生，早在人们上学之前就开始了。教育应成为人生命中不可缺少的一部分。然而，上学却是一个特定的形式化了的过程。在不同场合下，它的基本形式大同小异。在全国各地，孩子们几乎在同一时刻到达学校，坐在指定的座位上，由一位成年人传授知识，使用大致相同的教材，做作业，考试等等。他们所学的现实生活中的一些片断，如字母表或政府的运作，往往受到科目范围的限制。例如，高中生们知道，在课堂上他们没法弄清楚他们社区里政治问题的真情，也不会了解到最新潮的电影制片人在做哪些尝试。学校教育这一形式化的过程是有特定的限制的。

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1、Behavioral research discloses that human relations at work are just easier, perhaps because they are more regular and predictable and thus simpler to adjust to than the sporadic, the more intense and less regular relationship in the community. (R.Sayles Leonard, British writer)
行为科学研究提示，工作中人与人之间较好相处。这或许是因为工作上的人际关系较有规律，而在社会上，人与人之间的关系是断断续续的，比较紧张，而且也较少有规律可循。(英国作家伦纳德.R.S.)

2、Don't gild the lily. (William Shakespeare, British dramatist)
不要给百合花镀金/画蛇添足。(英国剧作家莎士比亚.W.)

3、Every man's work, whether it be literature of music of pictures or architecture of anything else, is always a portrait of himself. (Samuel Brtler, Averican educator)
每个人的工作，不管是文学、音乐、美术、建筑还是其他工作，都是自己的一幅画像。(美国教育家勃特勒.S.)

4、Growth and change are the law of all life. Yesterday's answers are inadequate for today's problems ----just as the solutions of today will not fill the needs of tomorrow. (Franklin Roosevelt, Averican president)
生长与变化是一切生命的法则。昨日的答案不适用于今日的问题——正如今天的方法不能解决明天的需求。(美国总统罗斯福.F.)

5、Almost any situation---good or bad ---is affected by the attitude we bring to. (Lucius Annaus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher)
差不多任何一种处境——无论是好是坏——都受到我们对待处境的态度的影响。(古罗马哲学家西尼加 L A)

6、Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it. (Hellen Keller, American writer)
虽然世界多苦难，但是苦难总是能战胜的(美国作家海伦·凯勒)

7、As fruit needs not only sunshine but cold nights and chilling showers to ripen it, so character needs not only joy but trial and difficulty to mellow it. (Hugh Black, American writer)
水果不仅需要阳光，也需要凉夜。寒冷的雨水能使其成熟。人的性格陶冶不仅需要欢乐，也需要考验和困难。(美国作家布莱克 H)

8、Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the freedom to choose his attitude in any given set of circumstances. (Leonhard Frand , German novelist)
我可以拿走人的任何东西，但有一样东西不行，这就是在特定环境下选择自己的生活态度的自由。(德国小说家弗兰克 L)

to suffer for one’s wisdom. 聪明反被聪明误

to harp on the same string. 旧调重弹

what’s done cannot be undone 覆水难收 .

to convert defeat into victory. 转败为胜

beyond one’s grasp. 鞭长莫及

to be severe with oneself and lenient with others.
严以责己宽以待人

a heart of steel. 铁石心肠

to be guided by destiny.听天由命

pride goes before a fall 骄者必败 .

the supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy
without weapon 不战而屈人之兵

what is bugging you 什么事使你心烦

sworn brother 干兄弟, 盟兄弟

it’s dying art 这是已失传的手艺

gentlemen agreement 君子协定

I'm trying to make ends meet 我尽力要使收支平衡

prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them.

富贵结朋友, 患难见真情

if you wish to be the best man, you must suffer the
bitterest of the bitter.

吃得苦中苦, 方为人上人

it is better to fight for good than to fail at the ill.

宁为善而斗, 毋屈服于恶

he who has hope has everything.

怀有希望者, 便拥有一切

self-trust is the first secret of success.

自信心是成功的首要关键

the secret of success is constancy of purpose.

成功的秘绝在于目标坚定有恒

success grows out of struggles to overcome difficulties.

成功源于努力去克服困难

experience is the extract of suffering.

经验是受苦的结晶

     Terrific!!! The world is just like a kaleidoscope, the happiness or the sadness is existing both publicly and behind the scenes. Actually,the truth is which one would you like to pick up,whatever! As a question goes in one of my blog visitor's space: If I don't like the professing measure of  one of my teachers in university,how can I get rid of it?? I use these words to answer this confusion as follows: “haha, such fucking-demn teacher will never fail to be found around our circle of colleges, you should try to cooperate. Still,the intellectual is as the intellectual does. Keep a definitive goal in your mind, that's enough. Actually, to promote your own true competence is the most crucial matter you ought to manage, and suspending on the top of the list is how to cope with your own affection when meeting the disgusting existence. Come on, have a try!!” So, please don't tell me  that you tend to believe that miracles would never come across you, 'caus you should take the initiative in coming across them!

每天起床后

我都会去自己比较喜欢的几个空间散下步.

看看谁又写了新的日记.

谁又发了新的图.

在伤感的文字和图片里.

总能涌出那淡淡的忧伤.

淡淡的感动.淡淡的心动……

我喜欢这种被淡淡的忧伤包围的感觉

喜欢那文字里所流入出来的亦真亦假的情感

很唯美.很凄美…… .

总能深深地久久地打动我那颗敏感的心

喜欢那忧伤的文字里所流淌出来的真情实感

喜欢那文字里所隐藏的无可奈何感

喜欢那文字里所传递出来的让人心痛的感觉……

真的很喜欢那种感觉

真的很喜欢那文字里的伤感之感

因为它可以快速的传染给我

可以深深的把我打动

使心里充满了感动和共鸣……

那伤感的图片也是我能为之陶醉的

它的真实.总让人有隐隐的心痛

总可以静静的打动我

默默的在我心里蔓延.无限的扩张……

那一张张的伤感图片里

充满了人最真实的情感

那情感总是那么的强烈

那么的凄凉，那么的忧伤

而我总喜欢这种感觉

喜欢被轻易打动的感觉

喜欢被轻易感动的感觉、

如果那图片上再有那既简洁又深刻的文字的点缀

那就是我的最爱了.忧伤的图片配上伤感文字

总能让我不可救药地喜欢上它

图片的每一个细节.每一个字眼.

在我眼前跳跃时.我的心灵防线总是瞬间崩溃

心里也随之伤感.随之感动.久久的感动.

我喜欢体会伤感的感觉

会很痛很累.但也很美很美……

我的爱情颜色是抑郁的蓝色

注定我的爱情是最孤独的

也注定了我会爱上忧郁.恋上伤感

我总在自己的世界里和自己不停的做着斗争

不知是想挣脱现在身处的这个环境

还是在和现在的自我做斗争……

喜欢被轻易感染的感觉……

不知不觉.一不小心就爱上了忧郁

恋上了伤感.这和我一直所处的状态有关

一个人.孤孤单单.忧忧郁郁.不爱上也不行.

这些忧郁.这些伤感总能轻而易举的触动我最敏感的神经

任其把我淹没，使我窒息……

在这铺天盖地的伤感中.我选择了沉沦

任由自己坠入无底的深渊………

爱，让一个人寂寞，相爱，使两个人更加寂寞。。。。。。